8 Easy Ways to Build Rapport with Your Students

One of the ingredients to successful teaching is building rapport with your students. Students are motivated to learn in subjects which they like the teacher. A healthy and happy relationship between you and your students will help create an environment conducive for learning.

In fact, being enchanting, according to Guy Kawasaki’s book, Enchantment: The Art of Changing Hearts, Minds, and Actions,  is critical to success in life overall.

Students learn what they care about, from people they care about and who, they know, care about them. 

Barbara Carson

Here are 8 easy ways to establish rapport with your students.

  • Call them by their names. Hearing one’s name is music to the ears so get to know your students early in the school year and memorize their names asap.
  • Another way to establish rapport with your students is to share appropriate personal information with them. Share to them your likes and dislikes, your favorites and little tidbits about your life. But don’t be an open book. Leave a shroud of mystery.
  • Next, you can establish rapport with them by finding something to like about every student. There is something good in every child even though his or her behavior can overwhelm this good side. By finding the good, you will find it easier to build rapport with them

 

  • Get to know their interests and hobbies. In fact, you can use this knowledge to engage them during your classes. By seeing them as persons with their own unique interests and hobbies, you can establish a better rapport with them. It’s a bonus if you share common interests and hobbies.
  • Show genuine concern for them. Ask them what happened if they are absent, late or are encountering stress in school or outside. Treat them as actual human beings and you’ll be able to connect to them better.
  • Refer back to their previous works and contributions. Whenever possible, compliment them by sharing their good works and contributions to the rest of the class. This boosts their self esteem and they’ll be appreciative of your gesture. 

Motivating Students

  • Another way to build rapport with them is to always return their work on time. This involves giving effective feedback about their work. Good and timely feedback shows that you care about their academic performance. 
  • Finally, be a good role model. Try to participate in the activities you give your students. Think and brainstorm with them and share your ideas. By doing this, you show that the work you assign is meaningful and worth the effort. 

I hope these tips can help you build better rapport with your students.

What strategies have you found to be most effective in your experience? Share them in the comments below :)

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Argee Abadines

Argee Abadines is the founder and chief content engineer of this website. He is a brain based educator and his educational interests are higher order thinking, creativity, and educational technology. He reads up regularly about trends in education and online media. You can visit his personal blog at pinoyminimalist.com

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12 Simple Strategies for Brain Fitness

Note from Founder: This is a special guest post from Sally DeCost of Elementary Matters :) She has been teaching for 34 years in the state of New Hampshire and has taught PreK until 8th grade.

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Hi, I’m Sally from Elementary Matters.  I’m honored to be guest blogging for The Filipino Teacher!

I am fascinated by the brain. I’m amazed by how it works, and what a flexible organ it is.  Every brain is different, and every brain has the potential to develop and grow stronger.

Just like the athletes in the Olympics have to keep their bodies in top shape, learners need to take good care their brains to keep them in top working order.   Here are some strategies for Brain Fitness:

Movement

Get exercise!  The brain needs oxygen.  It uses 20% of the oxygen that comes into the body.  That’s a lot of oxygen!  The best way to keep the oxygen flowing to the brain is to keep the blood moving.

And, of course, the best way to keep the blood moving is through exercise.  That doesn’t just mean a 30 minute Phys. Ed. class once a week, or a 15 minute recess once a day.  It means the body should get up and move at several times through the day.

Eat brain food!  Foods high in antioxidants and Omega 3 oils are great for the brain.   Walnuts, pumpkin seeds, carrots, berries, fish, chocolate, and dark green vegetables such as spinach are recommended for brain health.

Personally, I’d rather give my students chocolate or pumpkin seeds than fish and spinach, but watch out for that sugar!

Get enough sleep! I keep reading about how lack of sleep can actually damage the brain.  As teachers, we can’t give our students time to sleep, but hopefully some communication with the home will bring this need to a family’s attention.

The experts recommend 10 to 12 hours for children ages 3 – 6, 10 to 11 hours for children ages 7 – 12, and 8 to 9 hours for children ages 12 – 18.

Deal with stress!  Even if we can’t avoid stress, we can certainly help our students develop ways to deal with stress.

Frequent brain breaks are helpful, especially if they involve stress reducing activities like breathing techniques, yoga or meditation strategies.

Learn Many things

Learn something new!  The brain needs to be constantly making new connections and dendrites in order for brain fitness to continue.

Teaching the students something new is already part of our job, but making suggestions for them to try something new on their own time might inspire a new talent!

Of course, it’s not too late for the teachers to model new learning to maintain our own brain fitness as well as be role models for our students.

Learn a new language.  Take up golf or ballroom dancing.  Learn to play the violin.  Learn to play backgammon.

Change your routine!  Don’t let the brain become too accustomed to one way, or it will work less hard. Have math at a different time.

Switch around the morning routine. Have the children try writing with their non-dominant hand.

Listen to music!  There are a lot of studies proving how music helps the brain form new paths and connections.  I play a lot of music in my classroom, from rock and roll to classical.

I suggest music with lyrics and faster tempos be used sparingly, for example during brain breaks.  I find music with a slower tempo and no lyrics helps the children concentrate and focus for independent work.

Laughter

Laugh!  Laughter brings oxygen to the brain and releases endorphins, which are nature’s stress fighters and pain relievers.

Everyone could use more laughter in their lives, so bring out those joke books!

Avoid sugar!  Actually, some sugar is necessary for the brain to function, but that sugar is easily found in the complex carbohydrates in our diet such as fruit and vegetables.

The body can easily digest these and produce a steady stream of glucose to the brain.

Refined sugars, such as those found in sodas, candy, cookies, and many processed foods, are already broken down, and go straight to the bloodstream.  This produces a sugar rush, then a “sugar crash” which makes a person tired and unable to focus.

This crash deprives the brain (as well as other organs) of the energy needed to function properly.

Watch less TV!  There’s nothing wrong with a little TV; in fact, it can be informational and educational.

However, when the TV becomes a “babysitter” and consumes a large part of one’s day, brain function begins to decline.

Too much TV is said to be responsible for shorter attention spans and loss of valuable brain development. TV also consumes valuable time which could be devoted to exercise, developing social skills, or reading.

Water

 

Drink plenty of water!  Water is essential for all parts of the body to function, especially the brain.

Keep challenging your brain!  The more you think, reflect, concentrate, strategize, sequence, compute, analyze, categorize, question, or evaluate, the stronger your brain will become.

Encourage games that use these skills and your students will develop the skills they need for success in school, and in life!

Take good care of your brain.  Imagine where you’d be without it!

Argee Abadines

Argee Abadines is the founder and chief content engineer of this website. He is a brain based educator and his educational interests are higher order thinking, creativity, and educational technology. He reads up regularly about trends in education and online media. You can visit his personal blog at pinoyminimalist.com

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